TERMS AND DEFINITIONS

4-SOME - Four people or more engaged in sex.
AC/DC - Can go either way. Same as bisexual.
ADULT - Euphemism for pornographic.
AMERICAN CULTURE- Man on top, the missionary position.
ANAL - Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture.
ARTS - Fetishes.

B&D or BD - Bondage and Discipline.

BACK DOOR - Anal sex.

BBW - Big beautiful woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.

BDSM - Bondage-Discipline-SadoMasochism.

BESTIALITY - (also known as Animal Training) Sexual intercourse with Animals.
BISEXUAL - Versatile (also known as BI or AC/DC).  Someone who enjoys sex with both men and women.

BI-CURIOUS - Someone who is curious, interested in, or has had limited Bisexual experience.

BI-SENSUAL - sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive." (also known as B&D or Master/Slave)
CAN ENTERTAIN - Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
CAN TRAVEL - Advertiser will travel to your home to swing.
CHEATING - Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and consent
CLEAN - Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases and drug free.
CLOSED SWINGING - Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. The rooms are almost always in the same house (also known as Closed Door)
CLOSET SWINGER - A person who hides the he/she is a swinger.
CONDOM - used for contraception and/or protection from STD's (also known as Rubbers)

CONVERTIBLE -  Topless
COUPLE - In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabiting), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes; CPL for short.
CULTURES - Euphemism for Fetish, Arts
CUNNILINGUS - Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially with the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (also known as French Culture, Fellatio, Giving Head or Oral-Genital)
CYBER-SEX - Sexual talk via the internet.

DD - Clean, Disease, and drug free.
DISCIPLINE - A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings
DISCRETION - Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
DOMESTIC TRAINING - Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
DOMINANT - The sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner
DP - Dual penetration, simultaneous vaginal and anal.

ENGLISH CULTURE - Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning

ENTERTAIN - See "Can entertain."
EXHIBITIONISM- Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual and arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body: enjoys being watched in public.
EXHIBITIONIST - A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.

F - Female
FATTIES - Larger then they want. Overweight people.
FELLATIO - Oral stimulation of the penis
FETISH - Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy
FOURSOME - Four people or more engaged in sex.
FRENCH (French Culture) - Oral-genital activities: fallatio, cunnilingus

FULL SWAP - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to and including intercourse.
FUN AND GAMES - Euphemism for sexual activity
GAY - A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may
also be called a Lesbian.

GBM - Gay Black Man.

GWM - Gay White Man.
GENEROUS - Refers to money for sex.
GREEK (Greek Culture) - Anal intercourse
GROUP SEX - Swinging; Social-sexual activity between three or more people. (also known as Moresomes or Orgy or Roman Culture)
HARD SWINGING - A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. (also known as HARD CORE)
HEAD - See French
HEDONIST (Swinging) - Euphemism for a swinger; Lives for pleasure.
HETEROSEXUAL - Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
HOMOSEXUAL - Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (also known as GAY)
HORNY - Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
HOST - The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. (also known as Director)
HUNG - Refers to a man with a large penis.

HWP - Height/Weight proportionate. Some one that is not overweight or underweight.
INDOOR SPORTS - Swinging activities in general.

ISO - In search of.
LEATHER - A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.
LESBIAN - A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women (also known as GAY)
LIFESTYLE SWINGERS- People who prefer to get to know someone before having sex. This may mean socializing at clubs, exchanging email and chatting online, or going out on dancing,
dining, or for drinks first. Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.

LTR - Long term relationship.
KING TRIAD - One man and two women.

M - Male
MARITAL AIDS - Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. (also known as TOYS )
MASOCHISM -Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. (Also known as S&M)
MASSAGE - Working of the muscles across certain parts of the body. Can be sensually stimulating.
MBC - Married black couple.
MBF - Married black female.

MBiC - Married Bi couple.
MBM - Married black male.
MEET FOR PLEASURE- Meet for swinging sex; no pretense to a social or emotional situation
MELLOW SMOKE - Usually refers to marijuana. Legally, a no-no.
MÉNAGE A TROIS- A sexual encounter involving three people; a three-some
MORESOMES - Same as orgy. More than four.
MWC - Married white couple.
MWF - Married white female.
MWM - Married white male.
NEWBIE'S -New people in swinging; First-timers
NONSMOKER -Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.

OFF PREMISE CLUBS- No designated location for swinging/play at the club; you meet and make your own arrangements
ORAL GENITAL- See French
ORGY- Sexual interaction with complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex
OPEN SWINGING -A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. (also known as OPEN DOOR)

P/P - Photo/Phone
PARTY -Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
PASSIVE - Submissive; won't do it to you, but it's ok to do it to him or her.
PLEASURE SWINGERS - People who are into Swinging for sex; no pretense for social or emotional interactions no directly related to sexual activity.
POLY - Loving more than one.

QUEEN TRIAD - One woman and two men.
RECREATIONAL SWINGER -A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.
RESTRAINT -Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
ROMAN (Roman Culture)- Group sex; the party scene, orgies, etc.
SASE- Self-addressed, stamped envelop
S/M or SM - Sadism and masochism
SAFE -Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy.
SAFE SEX- The use of condoms during inter-course or abstinence from certain sexual practices

SBF - Single Black Female.

SBiF - Single Bi Female.

SBiM - Single Bi male.

SBM - Single Black male.

SGL - Single
SINGLE -A swinger without a partner, single or married. (also known as SGL)
SOCIAL -A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
SOCIAL SWING CLUB -A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. 

SODOMY- Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite-sex or same-sex partner 

SOFT SWINGING -A social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required or assumed. Sometimes used to describe swapping up to, but not including intercourse.
S.T.D. or STD -Sexually transmitted disease.

STR8 or STR - Straight
STRAIGHT - A person who is not interested in sex with same sex. (also known as STR or Str8)
SUBMISSIVE - Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (also known as Docile).
SWAP or SWAPPING - An out-dated term meaning two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.

SWF - Single White Female.

SWM - Single White Male.
SWINGING -An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners
SWINGING LIFESTYLE -Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
SUBMISSIVE - Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (also known as Passive or Docile)
THREESOME -Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (also known as Ménage a' Trois or Triad)
TICKET -A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
TRANSSEXUAL (TS)- Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to the other through surgery and hormone treatments; one who desires gender-conversion
TRANSVESTITE (TV)- A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual
VASECTOMY- A surgical operation to artificially sterilize a male 

VERSATILE- Bisexual; see AC/DC
VOYEUR -A person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others in sexual acts.

VOYEURISM- Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity
WATER SPORTS - Urination involving sexual stimulation.